Men fake orgasms too

There are a bunch of real issues and breakdown in communication when it comes to the bedroom. Women feeling pressured to have orgasms is certainly a big one. Smaller but still significant is men feeling pressured to have orgasms. The fact that many would laugh off such a claim is an indication of how little they understand the pressures men feel towards the whole experience. I’ve always been a heavy believer in communication, but sometimes it results in hurt feelings, especially if people take it personally. This article gives us a roundup of some of the data about both and reminds us that we need to start being more aware. via MichelleP

Could you tell if your man ever faked an orgasm?Has your man faked it? Go ahead and scoff – it is an article of faith that male orgasms are as frequent and common as Hollyoaks re-runs on Channel 4 – but according to recent data, odds are, you’ve probably been with a man who has faked it.

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Being Sexually Submissive Doesn’t Mean I’m Weak

Being Sexually Submissive Doesn’t Mean I’m WeakIf you were to ever meet me in my daily travels, the word “submissive” is likely the last thing that would come to mind to describe me. I am fiercely independent, strong willed, and extremely outspoken. I am a feminist, an activist, and a mother.

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These things are not mutually exclusive. This is especially true of men too, where the societal expectation is that you will be dominant. It’s also important to draw a line between everyday interaction and bedroom behaviour. What someone does consensually in the bedroom is personal, and should not affect how society treats them. click on the link above for the article.